

If you arrive in your new location with nothing but local cash, you may find yourself hungry, without a bed and very stressed! What time of the day or night will you be arriving - and what arrangements can you make before you do arrive to make this transition as comfortable as possible?
If possible, arrange for someone to meet you and take you directly to somewhere that has already been prepared for your arrival with beds made, food and drinks for at least 24 hours and enough instructions and resources so that you know what to do in an emergency (like how to call for an ambulance or reach a doctor).
Assume that anything that could go wrong, may go wrong. For instance, you could:
You may have even more items to add to this list (or your friends can).
It is always a good idea to have emergency supplies with you - a small first aid kit, a change of clothes, some food and fresh water. Have some extra clothing in case the weather changes or you do not have access to your luggage. Carry coins for public telephones and have a recent map. Double check all of your arrangments before you leave, preferably in writing (and have it in writing with you as you may forget some details). Have important information in printed format (not just on a screen in case the battery goes flat). Carry spare fully charged batteries for important items. Have essential phrases written in the local language so that you can communicate if necessary.
If you have never been to the location before, see if you can find any photographs of the local area so that you will have some idea of what to expect when you arrive, even if it is just a picture of the airport. Be prepared for unusual sights, sounds and smells. Be thankful for all the things that go right and try not to worry about anything that goes wrong - see it as an adventure and a challenge to conquer.
Ask other people you know who have moved for their best tips and advice and see if you can speak to some people in the new location before you arrive so that they can warn you about local hazards.
If you have just finished a long plane trip, remember that you will not be operating at your full capacity and it will take several days or even weeks to recover from jet lag and perhaps the busy time you had leading up to your move. Be kind to yourself and make time for extra sleep or naps and try not to fit too much into every day. If you are offered help, consider using it but also be willing to do whatever it takes to make things comfortable for yourself.
Have realistic expectations. It will not be possible to do everything at once and in a short space of time. Make plans and then double or triple the amount of time you have allocated just in case it takes longer.
Share concerns or worries with a trusted friend (which may not be your new work colleagues) and find out information rather than battle on without the facts you need to be successful.
Ask questions and read posts (before you arrive if possible but also once you arrive) on:
It is also a good idea to go on some local tourist trips to familiarise yourself with your new location (ask as many questions as you like on these!).
Keep the new information you collect in an easily accessible format and create a database of all of the new people you know so that you can keep in contact with people. Remember to let your friends and family know your new contact details - phone numbers, address, email address etc and try sending them a couple of photos too. Let them know you have arrived safely. Make an effort to personally thank people for their assistance - hand written cards are a treasured item in today's electronic world.
Moving Guide Kit Part 12 Move Planner from the Australian Furniture Removers Association (has a good list of all the contacts you need to create)
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